Preface and disclaimer
In my preface you will discover a brief overview of JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE. I will also reveal and dispel one o the leading myths about marriage, and how for many it unfortunately becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. I will also discuss who may benefit from muy course and who may not, or need other or additional help
A New Beginning
In this initial orientation , you will be introduced to philosoophy and its importance to jumpstarting your marriage. You will also learn about the true source of happiness and fulfillment in life and marriage, and how one goes about finding it. You will learn more about how your mind and that of your spouse works. You will also learn more about myself, and the knowledge and wisdom i am here to share with you.
Most committed relationships, except those of convenience, had some "chemistry" which led to extremely exciting passion and joy. Feelings were intense. Where did that come from. After the honeymoon however, it is common to wonder what happened. Where did all the excitement passion and joy go? And what caused it?
Maybe this is you too. This lesson explains why your excitement passion and joy decreased and introduces some if the challenges to maintaining it that JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE gives solutions for.
In this lesson, you’ll learn some basic strategies to JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE, give it a boost, and supercharge it. You’ll see how making your relationship a priority can change much of your life. You’ll discover the differences between ordinary routines and positive rituals, and end the lesson with some fun rituals that keep the passion burning. You will learn how why this may seem easy but prove so difficult for many and more importantly, you will learn how to enhance your ability to find joy and happiness.
What happens when you haven’t lived with each other long and things are already difficult? Remember, you’re merging two households as well as two different ways of living. You may wonder what is causing these issues and why they are occurring. Learn the truth in this lesson. Before you doubt yourself and your decision, learn about common difficulties couples have when beginning a marriage and how to ease the transition and instead, make it an opportunity to build the excitement in your marriage. You will also begin to learn how to navigate these issues in a way that jumpstarts your marriage.
In this lesson, you’ll discover how most disagreements are rarely about the couple. They’re about the individual. In fact, the biggest disagreements between couples are a matter of perspective. You’ll learn how to better understand the reasons for your particular viewpoints and theirs. You will discover why you most likely did not see this, and what solution will help you JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE. Finally, you’ll learn the key to keeping small challenges from turning into big issues.
Its common that once the honeymoon is past, concerns arise that you may have made a mistake in moving in together or getting married. You will develop awareness of why this happens and how it can cause havoc in your marriage if not properly understood and contextualized. You’ll see how merging lives takes time and can present opportunities to build your love. You’ll learn how doubts are often based on emotions, false perceptions, and beliefs and how to resolve them. You'll begin to explore the specifics in your own marriage. And you’ll discover strategies you can use to strengthen your relationship.
More About Expectations
The early passion which brought you together can bring you to a deepening commitment to each other over the years. This results in a comfortableness you didn’t know was possible. This can be both a blessing ond a curse. It all depends how you handle it and much more. As you develop more wisdom from my course, you will begin to understand the importance of this statement and you will discover how to implement it in your marriage. In this lesson, you’ll also see how change and life stages can affect your relationship and how the foundation you set now will assist as changes occur. You will discover the one sure thing that you can expect in your marriage. It is part of the truth necessary to jUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE. Most people are partially or totally unaware of this truth and in many cases, cannot find the happiness and fulfillment they are seeking as a result. You will NOT be one of them!!
You now know that there are many things you can do to counteract the effect of some decreasing “passion” chemistry. You’ve learned ways that keep the fun in your relationship. And you know strategies for dealing with the changes as your relationship . It’s time to reflect on what you’ve learned, as well as learn and think through how you’re going to implement these things in your life. You will begin to discover your own truths about marriage using the Socratic self inquiry principle.
What exactly is fortune telling and mindreading. Where does this come from. And what usefulness does it serve? I will reveal the answers here based on current understandings of how our mind, works and that of your spouse. In this lesson, you’ll learn what happens when you or your spouse rely on fortune telling and mind reading You will also begin to understnd the role of communication and begin to understand some rules and techniques for going about it. I will teach you little known methods to communicate effectively and what that means.
I am here to give you the power and wisdom to JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE, supercharge it, and give it a boost. This will become YOUR personal power and wisdom. So you will not only learn WHAT I KNOW, but you will also learn HOW to know it as it applies to your marriage.
Have you ever heard married couples say things like "talking to you is like talking to a hole in the wall" or "you didn't hear a word I said. In this lesson, you’ll become aware of how you and your spouse give messages and how they are received. You’ll learn specific strategies for getting past these challenges, resulting in more effective communication and a stronger bond.
An appropriate communication style achieves its goal in the given situation. In this lesson, you’ll learn about four basic styles -. DId you know you are communicating mostly without words and so is your spouse?. You’ll also discover when it’s effective to use each of these four styles. You will also learn what communication actually is, the truth about communication, and how to put it to use effectively in your marriage..And a lot more
In this lesson, you’ll learn and practice the most effective way to communicate with your partner. You want to ensure your partner hears what you’re saying and visa versa. You’ll discover the precise processes to ensure this, without your own interpretation or that of your spouse, interfering with the message. You will avoid the pitfalls of your partner saying to you or visa versa "I never said that" or "I did not mean that"
Words have power to create or destroy. In this final communication lesson, you’ll learn about words and phrases which can separate you or increase conflict and those which can bring you closer together. You’ll discover loving words and strategies that support this goal. You will also learn how NOT to damage your marriage irreparably thru words and how to actually cement it and supercharge it instead.
In this lesson, you’ll reflect on all that you’ve learned about communicating effectively with your partner. And how that can powefully JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE. You will have become aware of why the trial and error approach is doomed to failure. You might be surprised to discover how much you’ve learned! Now it’s time to learn more and think about how you’re going to put your new strategies into practice.
In this lesson, you’ll discover how to approach several common issues: for example, when one of you doesn’t do what they say they will, when life gets difficult for one of you, and the challenges of a blended family. Youll learn how to do this in a way that supercharges and jumpstarts your marriage rather than draining its energy.
Lesson 15a Part 2 More on handling common challenges in a healthy way.
Anger is a human emotion. Regardless of how good your relationship is, someone will get angry at some point. You will learn the truth about anger, and what it really represents. In this lesson, you’ll discover how to sort out your anger when you or your partner are angry, so it doesn’t fester and weaken your relationship. You will learn how to tolerate your own and others anger and regulate and express it so it doesnt damage your marriage but can actually enhance it.
Handling Anger #16 Part 2 More on the healthy and wise way to understand and handle anger in your marriage
It may surprise you to learn that what you think you’re angry and upset about isn’t it at all. You will learn more about the elephant in the room. Keeping feelings hidden takes energy away from the energy needed to have an intimate, passionate, and amazing relationship. In this lesson, you’ll learn specific exercises to discover what are the REAL reasons you or your spouse get angry, what you and your spouse may really be angry about, and what you can do about it. In short, the truth about anger.
Lesson #17a - What’s the Real Reason for Your Anger? - A Deeper Dive Part 2
When you share honestly and deeply, you can achieve an intimacy which binds you to each other. In this lesson, you’ll learn how to avoid destructive relationship games you or your partner may be playing unconsciously. These games block intimacy, distract you from the truth of how you feel, and as a result, your relationship loses.
Lesson #18a - When Games Aren't Fun Part 2
In this lesson, you’ll learn some fun, positive relationship games. Their intention is to facilitate open communication and keep your relationship fun and exciting. You’ll discover that both you and your spouse have your own love language. Learn how to find out your and your partner’s love language and learn some fun games to supercharge your marriage and jumpstart it. Learn the RFI principle and more.
Lesson #19a - Fun Games Part 2
More on fun games.
In this lesson, you’ll address fearful feelings, often long-standing, which directly interfere in your relationship with your partner. You’ll examine some basic fears and learn specific strategies to work through them.
Although it took courage to face some of the topics in this module, it gave you the opportunity to explore common challenges, including anger, and your relationship fears. You discovered your partner’s love language. And you learned about relationship games that keep you apart and others that bring you closer together. Reflecting on your new strategies will help you apply them and enhance your relationship and JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE.
This lesson gives you an exercise to determine yours and your partner’s desires for personal space. You’ll learn how your personal space desires depends on your personality, your brain chemicals, and what affects these desires and their impact on your marriage.
You and your partner are amazing people with gifts, talents, and interests. Some of those you have in common. They probably drew you together. Others you don’t share. Outside friendships give you variety as well as the opportunity to explore different aspects of yourself. They can be seen in marriage as a wonderful opportunity. In this lesson, you’ll learn how to manage outside friendships while keeping a charged up relationship with your partner.
In this lesson, you’ll examine how work and money can be used for necessities and fun or can become a hostile third party in your relationship. Learn how to make money work for you, not against you.
This lesson is about managing the challenges of bringing children into your relationship, making yours a blended family. As with all things, clear communication keeps your relationship strong as you learn strategies to enable your new family to flourish and create even more love and passion.
As the two of you navigate the joys and challenges of life, you’ll continue to learn about yourself and your partner. Over time, as you grow, you’ll also change. These changes can be confusing for you and your partner. Learn how to handle these changes and use them to enhance your relationship. I will reveal to you how cognitive neuroscience can help you and your spouse have the marriage of your dreams.
In this lesson, you’ll explore what is most important to you and your partner, and what to do when your expectations are violated. You will discover where meaning and importance lies, and how to relate to it in a healthy manner to boost and JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE. You will become aware of your non-negotiables, why they are what they are, and learn how to meaningfully and authentically compromise in areas that promote your life and your marriage. .
Lesson # 27 Part 2 As this is an extremely important area in boosting your marriage, it is continued in this second part. You will further explore the role of meaning, meaning, expectation, and belief in your marriage and how and why it is important to develop a healthy relationship with each of them, and what that actually means.
You now have a strong foundation for successfully handling many types of challenges in your relationship, including differing desires for personal space and outside friendships and your own relationship with yourself, as well as your spouse. You will have learned if when and how, to relate to yor desires, and to Keep practicing and rehearsing the strategies you’ve learned. When something is ingrained in you, you’ll have ready access to it during stressful situations. You are developing wisdom!!
Your sexuality and sexual desires are often difficult to share with your partner, but doing so will increase your overall sense of intimacy and trust with each other. In this lesson you’ll learn why it might be difficult to talk about sex, what to talk about, and strategies to help you in your discussions. You will also learn why this matters as much or even more than actual sexual intimacy.
In this lesson, you’ll look at the difference in sex drives between people. You’ll also learn factors that affect sexual desirel libido and how to counteract their negative effects, while taking advantage of those that promote desire and passion.
This lesson is an introduction into what turns people on. Master the wisdom in this lesson and you will be well on the road to becoming irreplaceable, and irresitible to your partner. Not having this wisdom can actually have the opposite effect so be sure you arent using the trial and error approach. You’ll also learn the difference between sensuality and sexuality and what are the most sensual areas of yours and your partner’s bodies.
Lesson 32 a Part 2. Because of the importance of this to your marriage, there are two lessons included in Lesson 32
In this lesson, you’ll learn some fun things to spice up your sexual relationship. You’ll also learn about the minefield of past experiences and I will reveal strategies to help you and your partner get past negative influences from the past and bond together in the most intimate manner. As with the rest of JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE, I will reveal to you the obstacles most couples are unaware of that keep a couple from living the marriage of their dreams and how to actually overcome these obstacles so as to supercharge their marriage.
In this lesson, you’ll address what to do if you and your partner can’t have sex. Is this the end to intimacy? You’ll learn how to address physical challenges, your emotional connection, and the challenge of one of you not wanting physical intimacy. You will come to understand why sex is deemed so important by many and how to handle the why, to promote your relationship, regardless of what is taking place in your sex life.
You’ve had a quick overview of sex and sexuality in this module. You’ve learned about differences in personal sexuality and you've learned many things you can do to effect positive changes in the intimate side of your marriage. You have also learned the methods of having a healthy relationship to lifes changes as well as changes in each other. Youl'l reflect on what you have learned so you can graduate, knowing exactly how to JUMPSTART YOUR MARRIAGE AND BIOOST your love, passion, excitement, and intimate connection.
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